Be straight, may not achieve, but don't give up

It is incorrect to use the above as a proof. However, "How a 'gay rights' leader became straight" is a strong example.

To me, each of us has both male and female characteristics. Within this spectrum from masculine to feminine, there could be some middle cases. Furthermore, some people might have a harder life when the levels of masculinity and femininity does not match their physical body. Just face it and live the harder life.

Some choices are just not meant for us to make.